When you compare yourself to others, you usually end up in a losing fight. You receive a raise. You’re excited… until you hear about someone else who has been at the job for a shorter amount of time than you, and then you feel bad.
Either you feel too superior to someone else, and then you can’t take constructive criticism OR you feel terrible because you didn’t get what that person got while you may feel you deserve it more.
If you take the perspective of looking up to that person who did something you didn’t, that’s good. Maybe you can get advice from them if that’s what you’re aiming for. Or you can just celebrate with them for that good thing. Genuinely be happy for them. Just because someone else got something you wanted doesn’t mean you should be upset that you didn’t get it. Celebrate your own progress!
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